Summary
Here I describe how the HartleyZisserman (HZ) pinhole camera model differs from the OpenGL display pipeline and how to build an OpenGL projection matrix directly from the intrinsic camera parameter matrix of HZ. What is particular about this exposition is that I do this by calculating the matrix elements directly from the camera parameters rather than calling the glProjection() function. This allows for a more general camera model including pixels with skew. I also include the algebraic derivation (as a sympy script) so you can follow my logic exactly.
Update (30 Jan 2013): The various implementations of the coordinate transform pipeline used in this post are available here.
Update (26 Dec 2014): I added a few more recent references at the end.
Note about image coordinates
In both OpenGL window coordinates and HZ image coordinate systems, (0,0) is the lower left corner with X and Y increasing right and up, respectively. In a normal image file, the (0,0) pixel is in the upper left corner. We have code paths to deal with this in one of two ways: first, we can draw our images upside down, so that all the pixelbased coordinate systems are the same. This is the code path used when "window_coords='y up'". Second, we can keep the images right side up and modify the projection matrix so that OpenGL will generate window coordinates that compensate for the flipped image coordinates. In this "window_coords='y down'" path, the generated OpenGL Y window coordinates are (heighty).
The OpenGL projection matrix from HZ intrinsic parameters
Enough of the preliminaries. We calculate the OpenGL Projection matrix when window_coords=='y up' to be:
[2*K00/width, 2*K01/width, (width  2*K02 + 2*x0)/width, 0] [ 0, 2*K11/height, (height  2*K12 + 2*y0)/height, 0] [ 0, 0, (zfar  znear)/(zfar  znear), 2*zfar*znear/(zfar  znear)] [ 0, 0, 1, 0]
With window_coords=='y down', we have:
[2*K00/width, 2*K01/width, (width  2*K02 + 2*x0)/width, 0] [ 0, 2*K11/height, (height + 2*K12 + 2*y0)/height, 0] [ 0, 0, (zfar  znear)/(zfar  znear), 2*zfar*znear/(zfar  znear)] [ 0, 0, 1, 0]
Where Knm is the (n,m) entry of the 3x3 HZ instrinsic camera calibration matrix K. (K is upper triangular and scaled such that the lowerright entry is one.) Width and height are the size of the camera image, in pixels, and x0 and y0 are the camera image origin and are normally zero. Znear and zfar are the standard OpenGL near and far clipping planes, respectively.
This is the cutandpaste output of our sympy script projection_math.py. The approach is that we enter the operations of OpenGL vertex transformation pipeline and the HZ projection model into sympy, a computer algebra system (CAS). We have sympy solve for the OpenGL projection matrix so that the resulting pixel coordinate is the same for both the HZ camera model and the OpenGL pipeline. See the script for the implementation details. Of course this could be done by hand but is tedious and prone to mistakes.
Comparison with the OpenCV camera calibration
Although I have not directly used OpenCV for camera calibration, their parameterization of the pinhole camera is a subset of the full HZ model. In particular, their matrix A corresponds exactly to the HZ matrix K with pixel skew fixed at zero. Consequently, this page can be directly used with OpenCV camera calibrations by setting K01 to zero.
Experimental verification
To verify that this computation of the OpenGL projection matrix accurately captures the HZ camera model, we have calculated the projection of vertices into image coordinates three ways:

A CPUbased implementation of the HZ camera model. This performs matrix multiplication of the eye coordinates by the intrinsic parameter matrix K.

A CPUbased emulation of the OpenGL pipeline. This performs matrix multiplication of the eye coordinates by the OpenGL projection matrix to produce clip coordinates, transforming those to normalized device coordinates, and then finally using the glViewport parameters to establish the window coordinates.

Direct calls to the OpenGL pipeline, presumably running on your GPU. In this case, we directly load our OpenGL projection matrix by calling glLoadMatrixf() and use OpenGL to perform all vertex transformation.
The first two examples are in the calib_test_numpy.py example and their outputs are overlaid. The third (OpenGL) example is in calib_test_pyglet.py. Each of these three examples gives the same results, suggesting that our formulation is correct. All calculations were done with Python scripts, but the concepts and results should be easily adaptable to any language.
Here is a brief conceptual walkthrough of these programs. Each program starts by loading an image acquired by a (crudely) calibrated camera. This image (luminance.png, included in the zip download below) is of a roughly cylindrical object 1 meter in diameter and 1 meter high. Part of the cylinder is occluded and only the front surface is illuminated. The camera calibration is contained within the file cameramatrix.txt. This calibration is decomposed into the intrinsic camera parameters and the rotation matrix, and the camera translation vector. A simple mathematical model of the cylinder is used to generate world coordinates of many vertices. Each of these world coordinates is transformed to camera coordinates  also called eye coordinates in OpenGL. This is done using the extrinsic camera parameters specifying the camera's pose and is done either as a matrix multiplication with the extrinsic parameter matrix or by loading them into the OpenGL modelview matrix. From there, each of these vertices in eye coordinate is transformed to window coordinates using the methods described above.
Output of CPU implementations
The blue crosses are the vertices after the HZ transformation. The red points are the vertices after the simulated OpenGL pipeline. Calculations done with numpy and scipy, and plotting done with matplotlib.
Output of OpenGL implementation
The green points are the certices after the OpenGL pipeline. OpenGL called through pyglet.
Download these files
In addition to the individual scripts linked above, all the files are included in this zip file.
Remaining work: compensating for camera distortion not described by the pinhole model
You may want to implement the nonlinear warping distortions (radial distortion, tangential distortion) that are often used to extend the pinhole model to be more realistic. A GLSLbased shader implementation of warping and dewarping may be the subject of a future post, but is not described here.
References
 A nice page on the OpenGL projection matrix by Song Ho Ahn
 A good description of the pinhole camera model by Yannick Morvan
 Another description of the pinhole camera model mostly compatible with the terminology here at Wikipedia.
 The OpenGL specifications
 Carlo Nicolini's blog post and GitHub repository with similar math and C++ code.
 A C++ implementation of the OpenGL matrix math by James Gregson, also on GitHub.
 Another description of using calibrated cameras with OpenGL.